Monday, July 9, 2012
Sex Talk For Adults: 10 Little But Powerful Sex Tricks
This post is X-Rated....
Keep your panties on Back in secondary
school, you probably had rules for how
far you’d go: under the shirt, over the
pants, and so on. Well, the teenage you
was on to something. It can be
pleasurable torture to play with each
other over your underwear, teasing and
stroking through the fabric. You’re
building up the anticipation, so when
you finally do have skin-on-skin contact,
it’ll be that much more explosive and
*Bring matters to a head...
There is a subtle adjustment you can
make that can increase your chances of
having an orgasm: the coital alignment
technique, or CAT.
Have your partner move his entire body
up about two inches. Your partner’s
pubic bone will rest on top of yours so
that the base of his member presses on
This position provides continuous
stimulation of your clitoris during
intercourse, increasing your chances of
having an orgasm.
Get confident with perfect posture: Push
your shoulders back and stand up
straight. Whisper in his ear a play-by-
play of exact-ly what it is you plan to do
to him tonight. Loosen up — extend
your arms high, bend over, try a split —
within his view, of course. Tell him
about your hot dream. Rest your hand
on his inner thigh under the table.
*Change the context
Some women are nervous to ask for
what they want during sex because
they feel it sounds too demanding.
Try broaching the subject in a different
setting where you can express your
desires in a more relaxed way.
Cuddle up to him while watching a sexy
scene on TV and whisper, ‘I hope we’ll
try that tonight.’
He’ll be receptive to your feed-back, no
matter when you offer it.
*Reach out and touch each other
A full-body massage helps stimulate the
seven energy centres throughout your
body, so you’re aroused from head to
Start massaging your partner’s hands
and wrists. Then move up the arms and
shoulders until you reach the chest.
Next, starting from the feet and ankles,
work your way up the legs and thighs
until you reach the belly.
This sequence helps awaken his sexual
When you’re done massaging him, have
him do the same for you — this puts
your energies in tune and helps create a
sense of union, not to mention feels
pretty damn good.
*Light up with pleasure
Turn off the lights, take a flashlight, and
guide the glow to areas of your body
that you want him to lick or rub.
Start with your neck, ears, nipples — go
wherever you want him to explore.
Even if it’s a nonsexual area like your
back, he has to pay attention to that
area until you stop shining the flashlight
*The fantasy encounter
Set aside 30 minutes of uninterrupt-ed
time on Sunday (finding this time may
be the hardest part of the program, but
trust us, it’s worth it) in a relaxed setting
— perhaps in the bedroom after the
children are asleep.
Wearing loose-fitting but attractive
clothing, sit down together and share
your sexual fantasies. Let your
imaginations roam free.
The caveat: Don’t touch, just talk.
*Start sleeping in the nude
If you’re usually a head-to-toe night-
dress woman (or man), take it in small
steps: a tank and shorts, then just a tee,
and so on until you’re completely nude.
Once you get over the nakedness of it,
the feeling of having nothing on is
actually powerful and potent — and
may even lead to sexier dreams, not to
mention a more tantalizing night time
*Why not try standing up?
Almost nothing makes you feel as
overwhelmed by lust as a quickie
against a wall. Pick a moment (don’t tell
him) and pounce.
Give him a hot, wet kiss, rub your body
against his and say, ‘How about right
here?’ If his reaction doesn’t make you
feel like a sex symbol, nothing will.
*Take it slow
“Peaking,” a technique in which you
assume a slower-than-average pace
during intercourse, can easily wind you
both up for an ecstatic ending.
A constant, fast pace will dull your
senses, but a slower rhythm will give
your body time to adjust and allow the
tension to eventually build up to even
So try consciously moving as if in slow
motion and see if it doesn’t bring both
of you to an amazing simultaneous
*Use your eyes
Both men and women are stimulated by
erotic visuals. Try keeping the lights on
and your eyes open (this also aids
communication, as you can see what
pleases your partner).
Making love in front of mirrors is a
variation on the same theme. The effort
Once you begin to appreciate foreplay
as an integral part of your life together,
sexual satisfaction will always be just
one short step away.
Posted by Eddy Ogbunambala at 12:57 AM